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Free interactive wedding planning checklist with 127 tasks. Includes Polish traditions, automatically adjusts the timeline to your wedding date, and helps you track progress.

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How it works

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Set your wedding date

Enter your wedding date and the checklist will automatically calculate deadlines for every task.

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Browse tasks

127 tasks split into 9 phases - from engagement to honeymoon. Includes Polish traditions.

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Check off your progress

Mark tasks as done, add notes, and track your planning progress.

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Sync with your partner

Create a wedding website to sync the checklist with your partner and access it from any device.

Download the wedding checklist for printing (PDF)

Generate a free PDF with all 127 tasks or just the ones visible after applying filters. The printout is clean and ready to use - no ads or interface clutter. Works in the browser without creating an account.

See also the ready-made printable wedding checklist

Why our checklist?

127 wedding tasks

A complete list from engagement to honeymoon. Nothing gets missed.

Polish traditions

Oczepiny, poprawiny, blessing, bread and salt - Polish traditions included by default.

Automatic timeline

Set your wedding date and every task gets a suggested deadline.

Free, no registration

Use it without creating an account. Data saved locally in your browser.

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Frequently asked questions

Yes, the wedding checklist is completely free and requires no registration or account creation. You can start planning your wedding right away - just open the tool in your browser and browse 127 ready-made tasks organized by category and time phase. Data is saved locally in your browser, so you can close the page and come back later without losing your planning progress. The checklist covers all stages of wedding preparation: from booking the venue and choosing a wedding photographer, through ordering invitations and organizing a hen party, to the final details in the week before the wedding. Tasks include traditional wedding customs you may want to celebrate. You can also add your own tasks to customize the list for your specific wedding. If you want to sync the checklist with your partner across multiple devices, simply link it to a wedding website on Strona Weselna.

Adding your own tasks to the wedding checklist is simple and takes just a few seconds. Click the 'Add task' button at the bottom of the list, and a form opens where you enter the task title, choose a category (e.g. decorations, music, catering, wedding photography), assign a time phase (e.g. 12 months before, 6 months before, one week before the wedding), and optionally add a description with your own notes. Custom tasks appear on the list alongside our 127 pre-defined tasks and follow the same scheduling rules - once you set your wedding date they automatically get a suggested completion deadline. You can add as many custom tasks as you like, for example: 'Order place cards for the tables', 'Buy wedding rings from the jeweller', or 'Book a trial hair appointment with the stylist'. This lets you tailor the checklist to your specific wedding while keeping full control over your preparation timeline.

Yes, the wedding checklist is fully configurable for your ceremony type and traditions. In settings (gear icon in the top right corner) you can disable tasks related to a religious ceremony if you are planning a civil, humanist, or outdoor wedding. Similarly you can hide tasks tied to specific customs you are not planning - for example an evening dance tradition, a parental blessing ceremony, or other cultural rituals - if they are not part of your reception program. Once a category is disabled, those tasks disappear from the list and are excluded from the progress indicator, so you only see the items that are genuinely relevant to you. You can change the settings at any time - if you change your mind and decide to include a church ceremony after all, simply re-enable the relevant option and all hidden tasks return to the list with updated deadlines.

The wedding checklist timeline adjusts automatically to your wedding date - set it once and the system calculates suggested deadlines for each of the 9 preparation phases. For example, booking the wedding venue is scheduled 12 months before the wedding, choosing a photographer 9 months before, ordering invitations 4 months before, and confirming the menu 2 weeks before the ceremony. Every task inherits the deadline of its preparation phase - no manual adjustment needed. Overdue tasks are clearly marked in red so you can immediately see what needs urgent attention. If you change your wedding date, all deadlines recalculate automatically without any manual correction. A progress view shows the percentage of completed tasks in each phase, giving you full visibility over your wedding organisation.

In the free version of the wedding checklist, data is stored exclusively in your browser (localStorage) and is never sent to any external server. This means your wedding planning progress, completed tasks, notes, and settings remain completely private - no one but you has access to them. You can close the browser and come back to planning later - the data will be waiting for you intact. Keep in mind, however, that clearing your browser data (cache and localStorage) or using incognito mode will erase your saved progress. If you want your data securely stored in the cloud and synced across devices, link the checklist to a wedding website on Strona Weselna. Your tasks and progress will then be stored on secure EU servers in compliance with GDPR and accessible from any device - phone, tablet, or desktop computer - at any time.

To sync the wedding checklist with your partner and plan the wedding together, create a wedding website on Strona Weselna (one-time payment of 149 PLN, no subscription or hidden fees) and link the checklist to your account. From that point all tasks, progress, notes, and deadlines are automatically synced in the cloud and accessible from any device - phone, tablet, and computer. Simply invite your partner as a co-organizer in the admin panel, and you both see the same tasks in real time. When one of you ticks off a task on their phone, the other sees the update immediately on their device. This eliminates confusion and duplicated effort - no more wondering who handled what. On top of the checklist you also get a full wedding website with online RSVP form, photo gallery, guestbook, table planner, and 9-language support. Wedding planning together has never been easier. Go to checkout.

Yes, the wedding checklist offers free PDF export with no registration required. Simply click the export button in the top toolbar and the tool will generate a print-ready document containing all active tasks - or only the tasks visible after applying your current filters. This means you can print just the tasks for a specific phase, such as 6 months before the wedding, or only tasks in a particular category like catering or decorations. The printout is clean and well-structured - no interface clutter, with tasks organized by preparation phase. If you prefer a ready-made simplified printable version without having to set up filters yourself, there is also a dedicated printable wedding checklist page available.

The maid of honour and best man are key figures in wedding planning - their role starts long before the ceremony. Traditional duties include organising the hen party and stag party, helping the couple search for a wedding venue, photographer, catering, and other suppliers, and supporting the couple with decisions and comparing quotes. On the wedding day they hold the rings, sign the marriage register as official witnesses, and stay by the couple's side throughout the ceremony. During the reception they coordinate surprises for the newlyweds, run the traditional party games, and make sure everything runs smoothly. Our wedding checklist helps delegate tasks between the couple and their witnesses - each task can include a note with the name of the responsible person, eliminating confusion and last-minute mix-ups.

Booking a wedding venue is one of the first and most important tasks in wedding planning - which is why our checklist places it in the 12+ months phase. In Poland, popular venues for weekend dates during the season (May to September, New Year's Eve) are often booked 12 to 18 months in advance, and exceptionally sought-after venues even 24 months ahead. If you are planning a Saturday wedding in peak season, start searching for a venue immediately after getting engaged. For off-peak dates (autumn, winter, weekdays) 6 to 9 months is usually sufficient. Before signing the contract, check the availability of your preferred band or DJ, photographer, and caterer, since venue availability typically determines the entire booking timeline. The checklist will automatically calculate all remaining deadlines once you enter your wedding date.

Wedding invitations should ideally be sent 3 to 4 months before the wedding date - this gives guests enough time to arrange time off, travel, and accommodation. For guests travelling from abroad or long distances, it is worth sending a save-the-date card 6 to 12 months in advance so they can book flights and hotels in time. Ordering invitations from a printer or stationery studio should be planned about 2 months ahead to allow time for design and proofreading. Set the RSVP deadline 4 to 6 weeks before the wedding so you can confirm the final guest count with your caterer and venue in good time. Our wedding checklist automatically schedules the invitation ordering and sending steps in the correct preparation phase based on your wedding date.

Complete wedding task list - 127 steps from engagement to honeymoon

The 127 tasks below are organised into 9 time phases, ranging from more than a year before the wedding through to the weeks after the reception. The list covers both universal wedding planning steps and Polish traditions such as oczepiny and poprawiny. Use the interactive tool above to tick off completed items - it automatically adjusts every deadline to your wedding date.

What to arrange more than a year before the wedding (12+ months)12+ months before (14)

  1. Set wedding budget

    Determine the maximum amount you can spend on the wedding. Factor in family contributions and your own savings.

  2. Create preliminary guest list

    Draft an initial guest list together with your parents. This helps estimate venue size and per-person budget.

  3. Choose approximate wedding date

    Pick a rough date considering the season, venue availability, and church calendar.

  4. Decide on ceremony type

    Decide whether you want a church, civil, or concordat ceremony. This affects paperwork and timeline.

  5. Book wedding venue

    The best venues get booked up to two years ahead. Visit several options and compare their packages.

  6. Reserve date at church or registry office

    Contact your parish or registry office as early as possible to secure your preferred date.

  7. Book wedding photographer

    Review portfolios of several photographers and schedule meetings. Top photographers book a year in advance.

  8. Book videographer

    If you want a wedding film, book a videographer early. Check their editing style on sample projects.

  9. Book wedding band or DJ

    Music sets the party atmosphere. Listen to them live or watch recordings from other weddings.

  10. Choose wedding style/theme

    Decide on a theme - rustic, glamour, boho, or classic. This makes later decoration decisions much easier.

  11. Preliminary selection of witnesses

    Choose your witnesses and inform them early. Witnesses must have valid ID documents.

  12. Create wedding organizer/binder

    Collect inspiration, vendor contacts, and notes in one place - physical binder or digital tool.

  13. Create wedding website

    A wedding website helps guests find info about the ceremony, venue, and accommodations. Add an RSVP form.

  14. Consider hiring a wedding planner

    A wedding planner takes logistics off your plate and helps avoid common mistakes. Check reviews and references.

What to do 9-12 months before the wedding9-12 months before (9)

  1. Start wedding dress search

    Visit several bridal shops and try different styles. Custom-made dresses can take several months to produce.

  2. Book decorator/florist

    A good florist transforms the venue. Discuss color palette, flower seasonality, and decoration budget.

  3. Enroll in pre-marital course

    Pre-marital courses are required for a church wedding. They usually last several weeks - enroll early.

  4. Enroll in family life counseling

    Family counseling sessions are another church requirement. Check available dates at your parish.

  5. Choose color scheme/palette

    Pick 2-3 main colors for flowers, stationery, and decor. A cohesive palette makes a strong impression.

  6. Book ceremony music

    Violin, organist, vocalist - ceremony music elevates the occasion. Coordinate the repertoire with the officiant.

  7. Book additional entertainment

    Photo booth, heavy smoke, chocolate fountain, prize wheel - extras make the reception more memorable.

  8. Plan gift registry or envelope info

    In Poland, cash gifts in envelopes are common. If you prefer physical gifts, create a registry and share it.

  9. Meet with priest about protocol

    The pre-wedding protocol is a meeting with the priest about your plans and required documents. Schedule it early.

What to plan 6-9 months before the wedding6-9 months before (12)

  1. Order wedding dress

    Once you have chosen your dream dress, place the order. Allow time for production and potential alterations.

  2. Choose groom's suit

    Choose a suit that matches the dress style and wedding theme. Consider custom tailoring or renting.

  3. Book makeup artist and hairstylist

    Check portfolios and schedule a trial session. Make sure the artist can travel to your getting-ready location.

  4. Choose and order wedding rings

    Custom rings need 4-8 weeks for production. Choose material, shape, and optional engraving.

  5. Order wedding invitations

    Order invitations well ahead of time. Include a map, RSVP details, and gift preference info.

  6. Send "Save the Date" cards

    Send date announcements, especially to guests who need to plan travel from afar.

  7. Plan honeymoon

    Book flights and accommodation early - prices rise closer to the date. Check visa requirements.

  8. Engagement photo session

    An engagement session helps you get comfortable in front of the camera. The photos work great on your website.

  9. Reserve wedding car

    Choose a car that matches your wedding style - limousine, vintage car, or elegant sedan.

  10. Choose bridesmaids/groomsmen outfits

    Coordinate colors and style with your bridal party. Order with plenty of time to spare.

  11. Plan wedding menu

    Schedule a tasting at the venue. Account for guests' dietary restrictions and allergies.

  12. Plan church decoration

    Coordinate church decor with your florist - pew flowers, aisle runner, altar. Check parish rules.

What to arrange 3-6 months before the wedding3-6 months before (19)

  1. Send wedding invitations

    Send invitations 3-4 months before the wedding. Set the RSVP deadline at least 6 weeks prior.

  2. Complete registry office formalities

    Submit documents at the registry office (birth certificates, IDs). The certificate is valid for 6 months.

  3. Complete church formalities

    Deliver baptism and confirmation certificates plus the registry office certificate to the parish office.

  4. Church wedding banns

    Wedding banns are announced at both partners' parishes for two consecutive weeks.

  5. Order wedding cake

    Choose a bakery and cake flavor. Schedule a tasting and design a look that matches your wedding theme.

  6. Finalize wedding menu

    Confirm the menu after tasting. Remember vegetarian and gluten-free options for guests with dietary needs.

  7. Reserve guest accommodations

    Reserve a block of rooms at a nearby hotel or guesthouse. Share accommodation details with your guests.

  8. Arrange guest transportation

    If the venue is far from the ceremony site, arrange a bus or shuttle for guests.

  9. Learn first dance

    Sign up for dance lessons. A few sessions are enough to feel confident on the dance floor.

  10. Order wedding stationery

    Place cards, table numbers, menus, seating chart - stationery gives the reception a cohesive look.

  11. Choose alcohol for reception

    In Poland, hosts traditionally supply the alcohol. Calculate vodka, wine, and beer quantities per guest count.

  12. Order guest favors

    Popular favors include personalized honey jars, fudge candies, or flower seeds. Order extras just in case.

  13. Prepare gifts/thanks for parents

    Prepare bouquets, small gifts, or thank-you letters for parents for the gratitude ceremony.

  14. Choose ceremony readings

    Select the readings and choose readers. Consult your choices with the officiant.

  15. Plan church music program

    Coordinate the repertoire with musicians - songs for the entrance, communion, and exit.

  16. Order wedding bouquet

    Choose flowers and a bouquet style that complements the dress. Discuss seasonal flower longevity with your florist.

  17. Order boutonniere and family flowers

    The groom's boutonniere and fathers' pins should complement the bride's bouquet.

  18. Write marriage vows

    If writing your own vows, speak from the heart. Practice reading them aloud a few times.

  19. Purchase bridal accessories

    Veil, shoes, jewelry, garter - choose accessories that match the dress. Test the full look together.

What to do 1-3 months before the wedding1-3 months before (21)

  1. Confirm final guest list

    Collect RSVP responses and finalize the headcount. Follow up with guests who have not responded.

  2. Create seating plan

    Arrange the seating plan considering guest relationships. Seat people who know each other together.

  3. Order place cards

    Place cards help guests find their seats. Order them once the seating plan is finalized.

  4. Trial makeup and bridal hairstyle

    Schedule a trial with your makeup artist and hairstylist. Bring the veil and jewelry to see the full look.

  5. Final dress fittings

    Make sure the dress fits perfectly. Fittings with wedding shoes help get the hemline right.

  6. Purchase alcohol for reception

    Buy alcohol in advance - wholesalers offer better prices. Rule of thumb: one bottle of vodka per 2-3 guests.

  7. Create detailed day-of timeline

    Map out the entire day hour by hour - from getting ready to the last dance. Share the timeline with all vendors.

  8. Prepare song list for DJ/band

    Create a list of favorite songs and a do-not-play list of tracks you absolutely want to avoid.

  9. Plan bachelorette party

    The maid of honor or bridesmaids usually organize it. Share your preferences and guest list.

  10. Plan bachelor party

    The best man or groomsmen usually organize it. Plan it at least a week before the wedding.

  11. Order flowers for venue and church

    Confirm the order with your florist. Arrange the delivery time and venue setup on the wedding day.

  12. Purchase or rent wedding decorations

    Candles, vases, runners, fairy lights - gather all decorative items in one place.

  13. Start pre-wedding skincare routine

    Start a regular skincare routine 2-3 months before. Avoid trying new treatments too close to the date.

  14. Prepare speeches and toasts

    Decide who will give speeches and toasts. Remind them to prepare well in advance.

  15. Order printed menus

    Printed menus on tables add an elegant touch. Order them in the same style as the rest of your stationery.

  16. Confirm bookings with all vendors

    Contact every vendor to confirm dates, times, and details.

  17. Wedding insurance (optional)

    Insurance protects against unforeseen events - weather cancellation, illness, venue damage.

  18. Prepare payment envelopes for vendors

    Prepare cash envelopes or transfers for the wedding day. Assign someone to handle vendor payments.

  19. Order oczepiny entertainment items

    Prepare props for the oczepiny games - veil, garter, apron, champagne bottle.

  20. Organize poprawiny (day-after party)

    If you are planning a day-after party, book a venue and plan the menu. This is a tradition in many Polish regions.

  21. Prepare guest book

    A guest book is a lovely keepsake. Consider alternatives - fingerprint tree, puzzle, wooden heart.

What to prepare one month before the weddingLast month (13)

  1. Collect wedding rings

    Collect the rings and verify engraving and sizing. Keep them in a safe place.

  2. Collect wedding dress after alterations

    Try the dress on at the shop for a final check. Bring your wedding shoes and undergarments.

  3. Beauty treatments

    Manicure, pedicure, teeth whitening, waxing - schedule treatments for the final weeks before the wedding.

  4. Confirm final headcount with caterer

    Give the venue or caterer the final guest count and dietary requirements.

  5. Finalize seating plan and print place cards

    Print place cards and the seating chart. Prepare a few blank cards for last-minute changes.

  6. Prepare welcome board

    A welcome board with names and the reception program greets guests at the venue entrance.

  7. Meet photographer about shot list

    Share a must-have shot list with your photographer - group shots, family portraits, and important details.

  8. Prepare emergency kit

    Pack an emergency kit: needle and thread, band-aids, safety pins, tissues, pain relievers.

  9. Wedding rehearsal (optional)

    A rehearsal at the church or venue helps ease nerves and practice the ceremony flow.

  10. Registry office certificate to church

    Deliver the registry office certificate to the parish. Without it, a concordat wedding is not civilly valid.

  11. Pre-wedding confession

    Pre-wedding confession is required before a church wedding. Schedule it with a priest.

  12. Purchase gifts for witnesses

    Thank your witnesses with a small gift - personalized cufflinks, jewelry, or a bottle of fine spirits.

  13. Prepare directions/travel info for guests

    Send guests directions, parking info, and public transport options.

What to do one week before the weddingLast week (10)

  1. Bachelorette / bachelor party

    Have fun but in moderation - plan the party at least a few days before the wedding.

  2. Contact all vendors

    Call every vendor to confirm times, addresses, and logistics details.

  3. Deliver alcohol to venue

    Deliver alcohol to the venue ahead of time. Check that the venue has proper storage space.

  4. Prepare decorations for transport

    Pack all decorations, candles, and props in labeled boxes for easy setup at the venue.

  5. Pack honeymoon luggage

    Pack your honeymoon luggage in advance. Check passports, insurance, and travel documents.

  6. Finalize wedding day schedule with family

    Share the detailed day plan with parents and witnesses. Make sure everyone knows their role.

  7. Prepare cash tips for vendors

    Prepare small envelopes with tips for wait staff, drivers, and other helpers.

  8. Designate day-of coordinator

    Assign a trusted person to coordinate vendors and handle issues on the wedding day.

  9. Rest and relax

    Find time to rest before the big day. A massage, walk, or movie night will help you unwind.

  10. Prepare outfits for day after

    If you are planning a day-after party, prepare comfortable but stylish outfits for the next day.

What to remember on the wedding dayWedding day (20)

  1. Parents' blessing

    The traditional parents' blessing before leaving for the church is a moving moment. Have tissues ready.

  2. Morning prep - makeup and hairstyle

    Allow plenty of time for makeup and hairstyling. Build in a buffer for unexpected delays.

  3. Getting ready photo session

    The photographer captures getting-ready moments - putting on the dress, cufflinks, pre-ceremony emotions.

  4. Drive to church / registry office

    Plan the route and travel time with a buffer. Make sure the driver knows the exact address.

  5. Wedding ceremony

    This is the most important moment of the day. Breathe deeply, be present, and enjoy every second.

  6. Rice/petals/coins shower

    Guests shower the couple outside the church. Prepare baskets with rice, confetti, or flower petals.

  7. Photo session after ceremony

    Set aside 30-60 minutes for a photo session after the ceremony. Choose the location in advance.

  8. Wedding gate/roadblock

    Neighbors or friends block the road and demand a ransom to let the couple pass. Prepare small bills and drinks.

  9. Bread and salt welcome

    Parents welcome the couple with bread and salt at the venue threshold. Bread symbolizes prosperity, salt - life's hardships.

  10. Carrying bride over threshold

    The groom carries the bride over the venue threshold. A tradition for good luck in the new life.

  11. Offering wishes to the couple

    Guests offer wishes and present envelopes one by one. Assign someone to keep the envelopes safe.

  12. First dance

    The first dance opens the party. If you practiced a choreography, this is the moment to shine.

  13. Wedding toast

    A traditional champagne toast to the health and happiness of the newlyweds. Usually given by the best man or father.

  14. Wedding dinner

    The main wedding meal. Eat calmly and enjoy the company of your guests - this is your day.

  15. Cutting the wedding cake

    Cutting the cake together is one of the most photographed moments. Coordinate timing with the DJ.

  16. Thanks to parents

    Gratitude ceremony for parents - presenting flowers, gifts, and reading a letter of thanks.

  17. Veil removal ceremony / midnight games

    Traditional oczepiny are midnight games - veil removal, bouquet and tie toss, dancing games.

  18. Wedding games and dancing

    Hit the dance floor and engage guests in party games. The band or DJ will keep the energy high.

  19. Late-night snacks

    At Polish weddings, hot dishes are traditionally served late at night - sour rye soup, hunter's stew, broth.

  20. Outdoor wedding photo session

    An outdoor session on the wedding day or another date allows for more relaxed, artistic photos.

What to take care of after the weddingAfter the wedding (9)

  1. Day-after party

    Poprawiny is the party continuation the next day. Leftover wedding food and lighter dishes are served.

  2. Collect marriage certificate

    The marriage certificate is ready at the registry office within days. You will need it to change documents.

  3. Change documents after wedding

    If changing your name, update your ID, passport, driver's license, bank account, and other documents.

  4. Send thank-you notes

    Send thank-you cards within a month of the wedding. Include a photo from the ceremony.

  5. Settle accounts with vendors

    Settle remaining payments and collect invoices. Leave reviews for vendors who deserve them.

  6. Post-wedding photo session

    A post-wedding session (trash the dress or outdoor) allows creative photos without time pressure.

  7. Dress preservation and storage

    Take the dress for professional cleaning as soon as possible. Store it in a garment bag in a dry place.

  8. Report gifts to tax office (optional)

    Family gifts above the tax-free threshold must be reported to the tax office within 6 months.

  9. Honeymoon trip

    Time for a well-deserved getaway for two. Enjoy every moment - you will return to everyday life recharged.

Wedding Planning Checklist 2026 - 127 Tasks | Strona Weselna